Sunday, April 2, 2017

Saturday Tale

Hey  Precious  Friends!

Hope  and   pray   that   all    of   you  are   giving   tough   time  to   all   hard   times   that    encounter   you   in    the   path    of   life   you   choose   to   walk   on .

Though    tough   times   are   actual   good    teachers    and   bring    out    best   of   us .They   also   add    the   more   beauty   and   value    to   the   sense   of   happiness    by   varying    them   obviously.

Yesterday   was   Saturday   and   since  beginning   i   try   to   finish   all   my   cleaning  ,laundry  and  all  other   chores  except  cooking   so   on   Sunday   i   can  spend   more  time  with   hubby .

We   share   our   various   home  and  kids   related  issues ,list  of  to  do  things  and   sometime   memories   of   past    over  the   cup   of  tea  before  the  lunch  time   and  evening   time .Without   saying   any   particular   thing   to   each   other    about   our   relationship   we   indirectly   absorb   the   joy   of   being   close   to   each  other  quietly . 

Last   day  hubby   came   home  quite  late  [it  is  very  rare  as  he  gets  home  around  3pm]  It   was  almost   evening  [almost 6pm]  .

I   did  not   felt  hungry   yet   just  to  be  with  kids  on  dining  table  i  took  lunch. I  was   annoyed  that    he  did   not    even   text  that   he  will   be   late  so  was   little   worried   too     i  inevitably   texted   him  that  if  he  is  fine .He   did   not    replied   and   my   head   was   anxious   beside   which    raised    anger .

Kids   were   enjoying  their  games  as  their  exams  are  finished   and    waiting  for  result    so   full  time  fun  for  few  days.   I   tried   to  focus   on  t.v   but   could   not   so   lied   down    with   lots  of  prays   in   heart  for   well  being   of  him.

Door  knocked   and   i   took   breathe  of  relief   when   i   saw  hubby   entered   with   his   smiling  calm   face  .this   sight   blew  away   all   my   previous   stormy   moods   and   sense   of  peace   and    gratitude   replaced   it.

Hubby   put   his   shopping  stuff  [fruits  and vegies ]  on  the   side  table   and  straight   came  to   me  .i  was   sitting   quietly    and   was   trying  to   look  like  angry   ,he   said   in   the   market   he   met   with   his   some   very   old   friends  from  another   city   who   came  here   for   some  kind  of  work  and  encountered   so   he   took   them  into   the  hotel  near   and   shared      nice  lunch   with   them  , 

 He  added  that  he   should   have    invited   them  at    home   but   he   knew   that   i  must  be   very   tired  already  and  will  be  hard  for  me  to   prepare  lunch   for  three  sudden  guests   so  he   preferred    eating   out.

  We   are   married   since   more   than   25   years   and  had   lots   of  sweet   and   bitter   memories   together   but  one  thing   that  gives   me   true   joy   is   his   care   for   my   loneliness ,  he  never   forgot   that   after   marriage   i  left  my  beautiful   village  and  lots  of   love     hundreds   miles   away   and   came   to   this   small   city  .He   knew   that   i  am   not   much   social  [though  in  good  relationships  with in  laws ]  person   so   he   tries  his  best   to   give   me   his   caring   company  whenever   i   needed [always actually] .

 After   he  told  me  i   was   good  we   both  had  tea   but   one  thing  was  not  good  he  was  reminding  me  the  anger   and  annoying  of  my   early  years  of  marriage   and  i  was   trying  to   show  that   i  could  not   believe  that   i  used  to   be  that   stupid  before .[Shame  on  me ] I   am   glad  that    we   change  by   the   time  and  hope  for  all   it  is  for   BETTER!

Please   take   good  care   friends  ,Happy   spring   to   those   who   received   it   already   and   Best   wishes   for   those   who   are   still   waiting   for   it .
Stay   happy  and   Positive  dear   friends!

God   Bless   You   All!

29 comments:

  1. Que tenha uma semana muito abençoada.
    Um beijo.

    ReplyDelete
  2. It is good that your husband and you share your feelings and also understand why you each may be angry. My husband and I also will get mad at one another but this is part os being human and we always later apologize to each other and never go to bed angry.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Really aprreciate that you sgared this with us, such a real love story, I'm also happily married ☺

    ReplyDelete
  4. You and your hubby are a lovely couple.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Through hard times and good times, there is always hope! Your thoughts are beautiful on your married life that you have written here. Maybe when you are older you can retire back to your country life! My husband retired and we came back to a more country-type area to live. Andrea

    ReplyDelete
  6. Your husband sounds like a wise man. He is mindful of your moods and cares enough to allow you to feel better. Very nice.

    ReplyDelete
  7. You are such a wise person, I like what you said about hard life and happiness going hand in hand for a fuller life, so true.

    ReplyDelete
  8. I too have learned a lot in a long marriage, and do not like to be reminded of how I was in the beginning! The main thing is that we have learned :) Your husband sounds kind and thoughtful. That is a good kind of spouse to have.

    ReplyDelete
  9. I always enjoy the look at your culture that are included in your stories.

    ReplyDelete
  10. It can be worrying when we expect our husbands to be home and they are very late, can't it. I have been in that situation a few times and remember always feeling as if a giant weight was lifted when I saw my husband's smiling face appear through the door. Marriage is a journey, a lovely journey of many ups and downs....but oh so worth it. It sounds as if you and your husband are a wonderful fit, Baili. May you have a lovely week, lovely lady.

    ReplyDelete
  11. Thank you for sharing this precious moment.
    May happiness and joy fill every moment of your life.

    ReplyDelete
  12. It is always a worry when the man in your life forgets to text saying something has cropped up and he will be late home.

    The mind goes into overdrive, wondering if he is OK!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Sharing part of your day, how nice.
    Many men wouldn't text their wives or partner either - and it was nice you were patient and understanding. It always pays to find out the reason before getting too cross.

    ReplyDelete
  14. Lindos desejos aqui! Ótima semana! bjs, chica

    ReplyDelete
  15. My wife also gets a bit worried and chastises me when I do not call or text back when I am at work :)

    I have been married 21 years.

    People do indeed change as I have. I also hope that I have changed for the better.

    Have a great week!

    ReplyDelete
  16. Hi Baili, Communication is always the key in any relationship. Balance and respect is a close second. We learn as we go along don't we? Your story has a happy ending and shows true love. I have been married 43 years and 44 this August. We still learn and grow with God's direction. Wishing you a lovely week and Happy April!

    ReplyDelete
  17. "Though tough times are actual good teachers and bring out best of us ."
    Our lives experience good and bad and only by having both can we move forward and learn, and I think this continues throughout life's journey.

    You have a good marriage, you care for each other.
    You are blessed.

    All the best Jan

    ReplyDelete
  18. You sounds like such a lovely couple. Your husband seems like a very thoughtful and caring person. And so are you! It's no wonder you are so good together. We change as we get older. Hopefully we are wiser!

    ReplyDelete
  19. Yes, these are the ups and downs in a relationship. Compromises and understanding works.

    ReplyDelete
  20. Hello, everyone does have their ups and downs. I try to focus on the good and forget the bad. You are bless with a wonderful hubby and family. Happy Tuesday, enjoy your day!

    ReplyDelete
  21. This is a beautiful love story! Perfect example of how love only endures when there is understanding and forgiveness!

    ReplyDelete
  22. This is a very nice story, Baili. Sometimes we do worry and fret about our loved ones. I've had many good times, but also many terrible times through my life, so I could relate to your post. Thank you, dear, for your sincere thoughts. And having a cup of tea seems to always make everything better. : )

    ~Sheri

    ps that was my daughter, Nel, on the recent post. She took a trip to
    Baltimore and loved everything about it. You will see me and my
    other daughter on my next post. Have a splendid week, my dear.

    ReplyDelete
  23. I feel the same way if my husband is late and doesn't call. I get worried! ^.^ You have a wonderful relationship - full of love and care for each other.

    ReplyDelete
  24. I loved reading this about your marriage... life is never perfect but there are beautiful moments that remind us of the good. How sweet your husband cares about how lonely you are and tries to always be there for you xox

    ReplyDelete
  25. Not shame on you!! You had these feelings inside of you, and you dealt with them, when your hubby came home and shared love with you! You have a beautiful relationship! I still think he should have texted you! LOL! Big Hugs!

    ReplyDelete
  26. It is so sweet that after all these years you are still worried when he comes home late and he is still worried that you will be alone. It is a sign of true devotion. Sending hugs and blessings xo Karen

    ReplyDelete
  27. Those of us who have wonderful husbands are truly blessed with good fortune, Baili. Your husband is a gem! It's not so much that you were stupid when you were young ~ you are older and wiser now, and if you knew what you know now back then, you would have made wiser choices. I try to remember to be kind and gentle toward my young and inexperienced self because at that early time I was doing the best I could even when I made some "stupid" choices. Sending you a big hug!

    ReplyDelete